NIKKI BUTLER

Inspiring Neurodivergent Women to Create a Life of Balance, Happiness & Achievement, Their Way.

Break free from living life on other people’s terms. Step away from the cycle of overwhelm and burnout, and create a life a calm, fulfilling life, on your terms.

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Nikki Butler | The Autistic Joyologist

Let's embark on this journey together.

Hi, I’m Nikki Butler, my passion is inspiring autistic & ADHD women align their lives with their values, goals, and dreams. To redefine success on YOUR terms, and to lead a life that is fulfilling and happy, being unapologetically you!

Having lived on the edge of society and never feeling like I truly fit in, with a decade in corporate management and another decade+ as an entrepreneur under my belt, I know what it feels like to live a life that looks outwardly successful whilst hiding the fact I was constantly on the edge of collapse and burnout.  

 

 I believe we need to stop fighting to conform to society’s views of who we should be and start living a life that energises us, where we can be the truest and best version of ourselves. 

"Strength Lies In Differences"

Stephen Covey

My mission is to help you step away from societal expectations of what success and achievement look like and enable you to create a life where you thrive. I want you to define success for yourself, and create a supportive environment for yourself. 

 

 

My vision is a world where neurodivergent women shine as leaders and entrepreneurs,  follow their hearts, and inspire the next generation to embrace their uniqueness.

What is an Autistic Joyologist?

Are you wondering what an “Autistic Joyologist” is? I guide and inspire neurodivergent women to embrace their true selves and create a life with balance, happiness, and an amazing sense of achievement so they can let go of the need to fit into societal expectations. 
  

I discovered my neurodivergence later in life and found immense joy and a new level of unique success,  in living authentically. Now, I want to share that gift with you. 

 

 

Do you wish you could create a happier & easier way of living, but worry it might be too late? Would you love to wake up in the morning and look forward to your day rather than wishing you could crawl back under the covers? I know that feeling. I’ve been there too! As The Autistic Joyologist, I show you how to embrace your true self and create a life the fulfils you, where you can achieve your dreams and live in a way that brings joy, calm and balance.

Imagine a life where you step away from the anxiety, overwhelm, and burnout of living on other people’s terms. Let go of the desire to fit in and proudly share your wonderful self with the world. Imagine a life where you become the inspiration for others and for generations to come. 

My Radiate Program

You’ll find my Radiate Model at the heart of everything I do. It is a life-transforming model that I have developed to help you create a life that’s aligned with your values and dreams and enables you to experience balance and happiness. A life where you can choose what success and achievement mean for you, where you feel fulfilled in all areas of your life. 


I developed this model to explore every aspect of your life. You can use it for whole-life transformations, or specific areas, such as personal or professional. You can even use it for daily decisions and choices. It will always meet you exactly where you’re at, in the moment. 

Accept
Discover
Innovate
Advocate
Transform
Empower
Reflect
RADIATE

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When I stepped out as The Autistic Joyologist, it was important to me to be able to support as many female autistic and ADHD entrepreneurs as possible. 

I have a range of resources, from free content in my blogs and newsletter (you can sign up below), to low-cost digital downloads, online mini-courses, and my signature RADIATE Thrive & Shine programs, which are online self led learning courses.

I am also a speaker and have spoken to large audiences, in many different settings. If you’d like to speak to me about attending an event or workshop for your Group or organisation, then please get in touch.
 

I look forward to working with you. Nikki x 

Wondering what an “Autistic Joyologist” is? I guide & inspire female autistic and ADHD entrepreneurs to embrace their extraordinary talents and skills, to create successful and thriving lives, where they stand out and shine, and to let go of the need to fit into societal expectations.  


I discovered my neurodivergence later in life and found immense joy and a new level of unique success,  in living authentically. Now, I want to share that gift with you. 

 

Do you wish you could create a happier & easier way of living, but worry it might be too late? Would you love to wake up in the morning and feel excited about your day, rather than wishing you could crawl back under the covers? I know that feeling, I’ve been there too! As The Autistic Joyologist, I inspire and enable you to embrace your true self and create a life where you stand out and shine, unapologetically. Where you let go of the desire to fit in and proudly share your extraordinary self with the world. A life where you become the inspiration for others, and for generations to come. 

Latest Blog Posts

Explore the blog section, a rich resource of insightful articles, thought-provoking pieces, industry updates, and expert advice to inform, entertain, and inspire you in various facets of life.

June, 2023

The Art of Masking and Unmasking in Autism

June, 2023

Building Bridges: The Importance of Community in Neurodiversity

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Autistic & ADHD Woman's Success Breakthrough Quiz

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Do you feel like you’re constantly living your life on other people’s terms? Do you wish your life could be easier, and less stressful?  Would you LOVE to be able to live live on your own terms, and define your own version of success and happiness?  Then this Quiz is for YOU!