Nikki Butler | Services

Break free from living life on other people’s terms. It’s time to stand out and shine and let go of the desire to fit in. You are extraordinary. It’s time to be unapologetically you.  

"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."

Welcome to The Autistic Joyologist, where we create space for you to discover and embrace your extraordinary self, so you can create a happy and thriving life, where you boldly and unapologetically stand out and shine. My services are designed with one purpose in mind – to inspire and guide you, an incredible neurodiverse woman, on your journey to a more fulfilling, vibrant, and authentic life.


I understand you. I’ve been where you are – feeling as though you’re navigating an external facade of success while yearning for something more meaningful and less overwhelming. It’s exhausting to feel like you’re continually trying to fit into a world that doesn’t always understand or appreciate your unique way of thinking. But guess what? You don’t need to be anyone other than your radiant self.

I’m here to inspire, empower and support you in creating a thriving and happy life, where you define success on your terms. 

Thrive & Shine Signature Online Courses From £555

Designed with your unique brain in mind, the Thrive & Shine programs go beyond traditional personal development programs. We dive into the core issues often faced by autistic and ADHD women, such as burnout, people-pleasing, and lack of alignment with true goals, passions, dreams, and values. 

These are self-led programmes, using my signature RADIATE model. It’s an inspiring and empowering journey designed to leave you feeling confident to face your future with courage, joy, and authenticity. Not only will you have the ability to transform your life now, but you’ll have the knowledge and tools to stay aligned, for the long term. 



I offer two versions of my Thrive & Shine programs. One is a whole-life approach, and the other is specifically for those of you who wish to focus on your business only. These are CPD accredited courses. You can join the waitlist below. 

"Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It's about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen."

The Autistic Joyologist online mini courses

Life as a neurodiverse woman can be unpredictable and sometimes overwhelming, so having the flexibility to learn at your own pace is crucial. Each mini-course is filled with valuable insights, practical tools, and exercises designed to help you harness your unique strengths, set healthy boundaries, and pave the way towards a life that fits you, not the other way around.


You are not alone

Our mission at The Autistic Joyologist is not just to help you survive, but to thrive. You no longer have to try and fit in with society’s definition of success, you’re free to create a life that truly lights you up. You are free to redefine success on YOUR terms! 


Your journey might have been challenging and isolating at times, but remember, your neurodiversity is not a limitation – it’s a superpower. Embracing your authentic self is the key to creating a life that truly satisfies and excites you.


You’re not alone in this journey. When we come together as the talented, capable, and bold women that we are, we become part of something much bigger. We stand together to celebrate our incredible talents and strengths, we challenge society’s beliefs in what being autistic and ADHD are, and we smash apart the outdated stereotypes that have meant many of us have gone through life believing we are somehow less. 

Together we showcase what’s possible, as a neurodiverse woman, and YOU will become someone else’s inspiration. Last, but certainly not least, we become a catalyst for change, so that future generations of autistic and ADHD females do not repeat our experiences, and live in a more understanding and accepting society, where they can thrive, unapologetically. 


Have you got a question?

As The Autistic Joyologist, I am here to inspire and guide you, and to empower you to live a successful life on YOUR terms. 

My wish for you is that you feel confident and empowered to let your strengths shine through. For you to confidently advocate for your needs, and for you to follow your passions and dreams. Where you boldly stand out, and let go of the need to fit in. 

My vision is that together, we create a positive future for our younger generations of autistic and ADHD females so that they can thrive and shine from the get-go! Will you join me in blazing a trail of success and freedom, to inspire young girls and women? 

What do you need from me to help you get there? Is there something you’d love to see, that I’m not currently offering? Please let me know, and I’ll see what I can do! 

Together we are stronger

There’s a certain magic that happens when we join forces, isn’t there? 

Your story, your strengths, your dreams – they matter. When we come together, we’re no longer a single voice in the wilderness. We become a chorus of courage, resilience, and empowerment.


Think about it. We’ve all had those moments when we felt isolated or misunderstood because of our unique wiring. But when we connect, share our experiences, and lift each other up, we realise something truly powerful: we’re not alone. We’re a part of something bigger.


Together, we’re more than just a group of individuals. We’re a community, a force to be reckoned with. We can challenge old stereotypes, smash glass ceilings, and reshape how the world sees neurodiversity. And you know the best part? We get to do it being our authentic selves, quirks and all.


Thank you for being a part of this journey. I love that we are all here together! 

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